Who Am I Criticizing When I Criticized Others?

Valuable past experiences taught me to calmly dwell and ponder on the many questions of life-processes contemplatively rather than trying to get to the tentative answers compulsively. Customarily, when things went wrong that irritates one in just about slightest issues, one would easily point finger to the other, saving 'oneself' from any shares of the blame.

Those question mentioned above helps me check again the way I present myself, the way I look and analyse everything around me. Rather than quickly putting the blame to others when things occurred not the way one envisaged, one should do some self-examinations meditatively and ask oneself: how did I contributed, if any, to this mishap? In other words: how can I criticize the other without also having me partly responsibled and be blamed, for the many shortcomings of one another's life endeavour? Is it not true that when one points one single finger to someone, one actually points three more fingers simultaneously to oneself, instead?

If Easter is symbolically depicts Christ's triumph over the pang of death, self-control and holy fear of God would be a success and triumph over one's many shortcomings. So therefore, I need to reflect deeper again...as I go through life-processes in the here and now, those specific question posed to me and to everyone out there, too.

May one discover oneself intimately as and when one criticized the other!